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appears in a recent issue of The Pedestal Magazine.
Short
Story: YOUR HEALTH CARE IS AT RISK Rick was about to get the shock
of his life. After parking his car, he hopped out smiling, eager
to share his victory with Lisa, his wife of two years. Rick had
won his first product liability suit against a toy manufacturer.
The plaintiff, a four year old boy and his family could now pay
the medical bills with plenty left over. Rick had reduced his
substantial fee, but he wouldn't tell Lisa that part because he
was sure she'd be angry. Money was less important to him than
to her. Although he knew no amount of money could reduce the pain
and suffering from the loss of the child's eye, it made him feel
good to be charitable. Too bad Lisa wouldn't understand.
He unlocked the door to their luxurious,
rented apartment and switched on the light. Stunned, he gasped
at the empty living room. Every piece of furniture had been removed.
He dashed into the bedroom. Again, bare except for the contents
of his armoire strewn on the floor, his clothes in the closet
and his toiletries dumped in the bathroom sink. Lisa and all of
her belongings were gone. Rick felt dizzy, nauseated, weak. His
world had suddenly, inexplicably collapsed. He hurried into the
kitchen for a drink of water. The cupboards were bare. A note
scribbled hastily in Lisa's childish handwriting on blue scratch
paper clung to the sole remaining magnet on the refrigerator door.
"The firm moved me to San Francisco.
We're done. Divorce papers filed. Lisa."
Devastated, he paced the floor.
Finally, he crammed a few necessities into a carry-on, collected
his briefcase and drove to a nearby hotel. Rick hadn't eaten dinner,
but he wasn't hungry. He lay in bed, hugged the pillow for comfort,
and wept. He spent a sleepless night, bemoaning his loss and the
mystery of his lost relationship.
If Lisa had told him her plans,
at least he would have been prepared. There was no prelude to
her sudden departure. No clue. He thought they were getting along.
What had he missed? No harsh words were exchanged when he told
her he was ready for parenthood, but she remarked that she wasn't.
There had been no discussion. Case closed. He could not have stopped
her from leaving, but maybe she would have explained.
After a sleepless night, Rick struggled
out of bed, shaved and stared at his blood-shot, sunken eyes.
"Man, you're one ugly dude. No wonder Lisa left. You don't deserve
such a gorgeous chick."
Rick couldn't mobilize himself
at work. He thought of nothing but Lisa and the mistakes he must
have made. He knew his best friend Brian and Cathy once had problems,
but they had worked it out.
He called Brian. "I've got to see
you. Lisa left me."
They agreed to meet for lunch in
a private dining room reserved for business meetings. After the
server took their order, Brian asked, "So what happened?"
Between sobs Rick told him.
"Pull yourself together, good buddy.
Lisa isn't worth it. Anyone who'd jump ship like that is a pig.
To tell the truth, Cathy and I never liked her. Thought she wasn't
good enough for you. Come have dinner with us tonight."
"I can't eat and the last thing
I want is to be in the company of a happy couple."
"We're your friends, Rick, but
okay, I won't push. I think you'd do well to call my shrink,"
Brian said as he jotted down his doctor's name and phone number.
Back at the office, Rick tried
calling the doctor, but the doctor had relocated. Probably retired.
Medical people are leaving the profession in record numbers these
days because of payment problems, he thought. To economize, Rick's
firm recently changed their medical insurance plan from one that
had offered free choice of doctors to a new plan-a managed care
company that promised big benefits at lower cost plus immediate
service.
Rick punched in the number on his
health insurance card for mental health benefits and was put on
hold for an inordinate amount of time. With every passing second
his frustration increased. After five minutes, "Brenda" came on
the line. In a pleasant Indian accent, she asked him about his
current symptoms. Rick's voice cracked as he described his sleeplessness,
lack of appetite, crying, and anxiety over his future.
"I've authorized one session with
Doctor Tess Case," Brenda said.
"What's one session going to do?"
he asked.
"The doctor must document the need
for additional sessions," Brenda replied.
"Document?" His legal mind kicked
in and he was horrified. A stranger on the phone had asked him
confidential questions, and feeling desperate and vulnerable he
had complied. He had heard the clicking of computer keyboard keys
while speaking to Brenda. He became concerned over who now had
access to this information. "Never mind. Destroy the document,
please, " he said before disengaging the phone.
After he regained his composure,
he chuckled at the irony of the doctor's name, and realized a
remnant of his sense of humor was restored. Although many of the
employees at Rick's firm were attorneys, they had failed to investigate
the track record of the new plan nor to consider the limitations.
They had fallen prey to an evangelical sales pitch. Because Rick
was a successful attorney, he could well afford private confidential
psychotherapy and he needed more than a few sessions to learn
that he had ascribed qualities to Lisa which were not hers, but
of his idealized image of the wife he wanted--someone generous,
compassionate, and family minded.
Rick had fallen for Lisa's good
looks and had taken for granted they would have a family. They
had been drawn together because of the familiarity of their shared
backgrounds, but that was not enough. They had not discussed their
goals and values prior to marriage.
Lisa, a highly paid corporate attorney
turned out to be materialistic and selfish. Rick would do better
with a mate with whom he shared the same values-a woman who would
be proud of his kindness to others. His symptoms quickly dissipated.
Therapy helped grow Rick's self esteem and saw him through his
next mate choice-a woman worthy of him.
Rick was fortunate to connect with
a psychologist during a rough period in his life and to achieve
personal growth. But Rick may be in a minority of people--those
who could profit from psychotherapy and are willing and able to
pay for it.
Despite the public's awareness
of the benefits of psychotherapy, the limitations placed by managed
care do not permit intensive psychotherapy.
Confidential information once held
sacrosanct is no more. Our personal data is computerized, accessible
and can be compromised.
Information showing a deterioration
of functioning is frequently required before treatment is authorized.
Most people who would benefit from psychotherapy are able to function
well, but they are in emotional pain and deserve relief. Relief
should not always come from a bottle. A clerk, reading from a
managed care manual may tell the doctor to prescribe a specific
medication--usually cheaper or not always the best for the patient--in
effect practicing medicine without a license. Recent studies show
that the best form of treatment for depression may be a combination
of medication and cognitive therapy.
In many cases the number of authorized
sessions is too brief to bring lasting results or to restore functioning.
If someone has been carrying around unpleasant baggage for years,
it's wishful thinking to expect a few sessions to be significant.
Magic 101 is not in the mental
health curriculum. Change takes time. Examine the high rate of
divorce, spousal and child abuse, homicide, suicide, violence,
substance abuse and the abundance of self-help groups for every
malady and you will see the need for psychotherapy. Read Ann Landers.
It is well established that emotional
health impacts physical health and work productivity.
We are all part of a network of
relationships: friends, family, co-workers, neighbors. Our emotional
upsets impacts those close to us--like a spreading virus. A healthy
person is an asset. An emotionally unhealthy person can be a liability.
Managed care corporations are in
business to make money, If they were to pay for the best care,
their executives would be deprived of their unconscionable salaries
and huge benefit packages. Marketing their product would be too
costly.
Many doctors have difficulty collecting
the contracted discounted fee. Many drop off panels because they
either do not receive payment for services or they receive a below
market fee. These panels become phantom panels. The names of the
doctors may remain on the panels, but they are not available to
the "insured." Although health care providers chose their profession
to help people, they need to support themselves and their families.
A recent Supreme Court decision
ruling in favor of HMO's has made the situation worse. Patients
cannot sue their HMO's in federal court. If you would like you
help battle abuses from these corporations, join The National
Coalition of Mental Health Professionals and Consumers. Help protect
quality mental health treatment and the patient's rights to choice,
privacy, and decision-making power.
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